Are you navigating divorce with a partner who struggles with mental Illness?
Stuck in a difficult marriage?
Divorcing someone with serious mental health challenges can feel overwhelming, exhausting, and even frightening. Narcissism, bipolar disorder, anxiety, depression, OCD, or other disorders can make negotiation and communication nearly impossible, leaving you drained and uncertain about the future.
You don’t have to go through this alone.
With over 35 years of experience as a divorce attorney, mediator, and licensed medical professional with a psychological background, I understand both the legal and emotional complexities these cases bring. My unique training allows me to recognize the patterns, anticipate challenges, and create strategies that protect you, your children, and your future.
Call (212) 734-1551 or fill out the consultation form today.
You deserve clarity, protection, and peace of mind.
What to do next?
Document Everything
Keep detailed records of all communications and interactions, especially incidents of abuse or inappropriate behavior. The more evidence you have, the stronger your case will be.
Seek Professional Help
Work with a therapist or counselor to manage stress, and consider an experienced divorce attorney/mediator. My team includes professionals in law, psychology, and wellness to help protect you and your children throughout the process.
Set Boundaries
Protect yourself by setting clear limits. Limit unnecessary contact, avoid triggering conversations, and don’t engage in manipulative arguments.
Be Prepared
Gather financial records, communications, and any evidence of abuse before moving forward. Preparation ensures a smoother process.
Focus on Your Own Needs
Stay centered on your goals — protecting your children, securing a fair settlement, and maintaining your well-being. Don’t let your spouse’s behavior derail your priorities.
Ready to get started?
YOUR DIVORCE PROCESS SIMPLIFIED
Lois Brenner will listen and get to know you, your family dynamics, and evaluate the emotional and legal makeup of your marriage. If after your meeting, your preference is to compromise, she will help you "negotiate." If your desire is to keep the peace, she will help you "mediate." If your course of action is to fight, she will help you "litigate."
NEGOTIATION
A quicker approach that focuses on compromise. Takes months, not years. Less expensive and less adversarial.
MEDIATION
A quicker approach that focuses on compromise. Takes months, not years. Less expensive and less adversarial.
LITIGATION
A traditional approach for when you need to fight. Can take months or even years. Most expensive and can be very stressful.
"Lois Brenner was great to work with. She was very thorough and efficient! I would recommend Lois to anyone seeking an amicable divorce."
– Ronald W.
"Lois is truly an extraordinary lawyer and human being. My experience with her is powerfully profound. So incredibly grateful for her guidance and consultation. I would highly recommend her to anyone who needs to protect themselves and their loved ones."
– John M.
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About Lois Brenner
Lois M. Brenner, Esq., PA-C is a New York divorce attorney, accredited mediator, and licensed medical professional with a psychological background. With over 35 years of experience, she brings a unique blend of legal and medical expertise to complex divorce cases.
Her career began in corporate law at Sullivan & Cromwell, later leading the matrimonial department at Herzfeld & Rubin before establishing her own practice. She has also been appointed by the New York State Supreme Court to mediate challenging cases.
An accomplished author of Getting Your Share, featured on Oprah, Ms. Brenner has been quoted in The New York Times, New York Magazine, and has appeared on Oprah, Good Morning America, and CNN.
